Throughout our lives we experience many kinds of limitations. For example, we are subject to the laws of physics. Our bodies are finite and will eventually cease to function and we will die. We may also experience certain limitations in our physical, cognitive, psychological, or emotional capacities and abilities. Limitations may also be imposed on us by the expectations, words, or actions of others, or by social groups to which we belong, organizations who employ us, and by the laws of governments. Just as important are the limitations we perceive, create, or maintain for ourselves in our own minds.
Some of these limitations we cannot change, and some we can and should seek to change, whether individually or collectively with others, such as when we see injustices occurring. One of the difficulties is being able to properly discern those things we can and should change, and those that we cannot or should not change. This requires wisdom. It also takes determination and courage to change things, especially when those changes are opposed by others.
Our freedom lies in our ability to decide how we will respond to our life situations. Fortunately, we have the indwelling Spirit to help guide us and empower us with the wisdom and courage that we need.
What are some of the limitations that you are experiencing now in your life? What things do you believe you can and should change?
You may find it helpful to pray the following version of the "Serenity Prayer" by Reinhold Niebuhr (1892–1971):
God, grant me the serenity to accept
the things I cannot change,
courage to change the things I can,
and wisdom to know the difference.
Living one day at a time,
enjoying one moment at a time.
Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace.
Taking, as Jesus did,
the sinful world as it is,
not as I would have it.
Trusting that You will make all things right
if I surrender to Your will,
so that I may be reasonably happy in this life,
and supremely happy with You forever.
Amen.