A Love That Puts Christ First
Thirteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time Matthew 10:37–42 Jesus’ admonition in the Gospel against loving family members before him can sound startling at first. Jesus isn’t telling us to love our families less—he’s inviting us to love him first . When Christ is at the center of our hearts, every other relationship becomes stronger, healthier, and more rooted in real love. Putting Jesus first doesn’t diminish our love for others; it purifies it. Jesus also speaks of taking up our cross. This isn’t about seeking suffering—it’s about choosing faithfulness even when it costs us something. Every day we face small crosses: choosing patience when we’re frustrated, forgiveness when we’re hurt, generosity when we’re tired, or integrity when it’s inconvenient. These are the quiet, hidden ways we follow Christ. Then Jesus shifts to something beautifully simple: the reward for offering even “a cup of cold water” to one of his little ones. In God’s eyes, no act of kindness is too small. A...