Growing from Dependency to Interdependency
Human life is a journey of growth. From birth, we depend on others for care, protection, and love. As we mature, we learn to make decisions, accept responsibility, and become more independent. Yet the goal of a healthy and spiritually mature life is not to live as though we need nobody. Rather, it is to grow toward interdependency —a way of living in which we take responsibility for ourselves while recognizing that we need God, one another, and the whole of creation. Dependency is a natural part of life. As children, we depend on our parents and caregivers. In our relationship with God, however, dependence is not a weakness to overcome. We are created by God and always need God's love and grace. The Catechism teaches that the desire for God is written in the human heart ( CCC 27). Our challenge is to distinguish this healthy dependence from unhealthy relationships in which fear, control, or an inability to take responsibility prevents us from growing. As Saint Paul says, ...