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Why Do Bad Things Happen to Good People?

Many believers wonder why evil and suffering exist in a world created by an all‑loving, all-good. all-knowing and all-powerful God. 1 After all, didn't Jesus come to give us life more abundantly? (John 10:10). Thomas Jay Oord, one of the leading voices in "Open and Relational Theology," offers a way of thinking about God that is both deeply hopeful and refreshingly honest about the world we live in. 2 When we ask, “Why do bad things happen to good people?”, Oord's response begins with a simple but profound conviction: God is love (1 John 4:8, 16). Open and Relational Theology teaches that God’s love is inherently uncontrolling and non‑coercive. God does not override human freedom, natural processes, or the choices of others. If God controlled everything, then tragedies, injustice, and suffering would be acts of God—which would make God unloving. Instead, Oord argues that God works in every moment to heal, to nudge, to inspire, and to bring good—but never by f...

"It is I; Do Not Be Afraid"

Nineteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time Matthew 14:22–33 Matthew’s account of Jesus walking on the water is more than a miracle story. It is a window into the heart of discipleship. After feeding the five thousand, Jesus sends the disciples ahead in a boat, while he goes up the mountain to pray. As night falls, the disciples find themselves battered by wind and waves, far from shore, struggling against forces beyond their control, exhausted and afraid. Then Jesus comes to them—walking on the sea. They are terrified, thinking Jesus is a ghost. But Jesus speaks the words every human heart longs to hear: “Take courage, it is I; do not be afraid.” Peter, bold and eager, courageously steps out of the boat. For a moment, he walks on the water toward Jesus. But when Peter notices the wind, fear overtakes him, he takes his eyes off of Jesus, and he begins to sink. Unable to save himself, Peter instinctively cries out, “Lord, save me!” Immediately—without hesitation—Jesus reaches ...

We Are Called to Holiness

One of the most beautiful teachings of our Catholic faith is that "every person is called to holiness." Holiness is not reserved for priests, religious, or a select group of spiritual heroes. It is the vocation of every baptized person —married, single, widowed, ordained, consecrated, young, old, working, retired—in every season of life, in every circumstance, and in every ordinary day. The term "holiness" comes from the Hebrew word qōdesh , which means being set apart for God . Throughout Scripture we find God's call to "Be holy, for I am holy" (e.g. Leviticus 11:44-45; 19:2; 20:7; 1 Peter 1:15-16; cf. Matthew 5:48). Holiness simply means belonging to God fully, allowing God’s love to shape who we are and how we think, speak, act, and live. It is becoming the person God created us to be. It is not perfectionism or pious appearances. It is the slow, steady work of God's grace transforming our heart, mind, and behavior so that our life refle...

God's Abundance in Our Ordinary Lives

Eighteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time Matthew 14:13–21 The story of the feeding of the five thousand is one of the most familiar scenes in the Gospel—and one of the most practical. Jesus looks at a hungry crowd, turns to his disciples, and says something surprising: “You give them something to eat.” They respond the way most of us would: “We don’t have enough.” All they can find is a small lunch—five loaves and two fish. It seems laughably inadequate. But Jesus doesn’t ask them for what they don’t have. Jesus asks them to bring what they do have. Jesus blesses what they provided, breaks the bread, and places it back into their hands. Suddenly, what was small becomes more than enough. Everyone eats. Everyone is satisfied. And there are baskets of leftovers. This miracle is not only about bread. It is about the way God works with the ordinary, imperfect, limited things we offer God. The disciples’ small offering becomes a sign of God’s generosity. In the same way, our ...

What Gives Life Meaning?

Many people quietly wonder, “What gives my life meaning? 1 Michael F. Steger, a leading researcher on human flourishing, offers a simple and helpful formula: Meaning = Coherence + Purpose + Significance. 2 These elements find agreement within our Christian faith and can guide us toward a more grounded and grace-filled life. Coherence is the sense that your life story has a thread—God's love and grace—running through it. It doesn’t mean everything is perfect or easy. It means you can understand your experiences in a way that helps you move forward. Scripture repeatedly assures us that God is present in every chapter of our life—joyful, painful, confusing, or ordinary. For example: " We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, who are called according to his purpose " (Romans 8:28). A reminder that God can weave even your struggles into a larger story of grace. "Lord, you have probed me, you know me . . . in your book all are...

Treasure That Changes Everything

Seventeenth Sunday in Ordinary Time Matthew 13:44–52 Jesus gives us three short images today—a hidden treasure, a pearl of great price, and a fishing net. Each one teaches us something simple and life‑changing about the Kingdom or reign of God. The first image is of a a person who finds a treasure buried in a field. It is so valuable, so life‑giving, that he joyfully sells everything he owns to buy the field. Jesus is telling us that God’s reign—God's presence, grace, and way of life—is worth more than anything else we could desire or chase. When we truly discover God’s love, our priorities shift. We begin to let go of what doesn’t matter so we can hold onto what does. The second image of a merchant searching for pearls reminds us that we are all searching for something: security, meaning, peace, belonging. When he finds the one pearl that surpasses all others, he gives up everything to make it his. Jesus invites us to ask: "What am I searching for? And have I recog...

Who Is the Center of Your Life?

"No one can serve two masters. He will either hate one and love the other, or be devoted to one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and mammon." —Matthew 6:24 Jesus speaks directly to our human hearts when he says, “No one can serve two masters… You cannot serve God and mammon.” These words are not meant to frighten us. They are meant to free us. Jesus knows how easily our hearts become divided—pulled in different directions. Jesus is naming the reality that every heart has rival claims—God's call or the pull of wealth, security, status, or self-reliance. When we try to serve both, our hearts and lives become divided and anxious. A "Master" is anything that claims our deepest loyalty, shapes and governs our life, our choices, our desires, our priorities, and directs our energy. “Mammon” is more than money. It is whatever we treat as our ultimate source of security or identity. It can be the need to be in control, the desire for recognition, ...